The moment Ms. Chu Thi Bich (from Tuyen Quang) made her husband’s legs, Duong Cao Thanh (33 years old, from Vinh Phuc) received more than 2 million views and “rained hearts” on social networks.
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Reporter Youth Contacted Mr. Thanh and confirmed that the clip shared on social networks in recent days was his and his wife’s. Because he can’t walk and is in a wheelchair, Bich has made his legs for the past 8 years, from the day he became a husband and wife.
“Every time I am carried by my wife, I feel guilty but also happy. I feel guilty because I am a man, but I let my wife carry me like that. I am happy because I know that my wife loves and takes good care of me. like all these years. There are times when I just wish I had healthy legs to carry her back, “he expressed.
Thanh could have grown up healthy and normal like many other people, if he hadn’t had a traffic accident at the age of 13 that caused him to suffer a spinal injury, his legs were permanently incapacitated. At that age, even though he was sad because he couldn’t run, jump and have fun like his peers, he still believed his parents’ comfort, saying: “When I grow up, I’ll be fine!”.
At the age of twenties, he began to realize all the disadvantages of his life when he could not move with his legs and also knew that his legs could never be healed. But the boy also gradually accepted to live with that and found a way to adapt. He tries to do all the work in life and daily activities by himself, limiting having to rely on relatives or people around him.
At the age of 25, he had a chance to meet Bich, a healthy girl working as a maid. At first sight, he fell in love with her, but she did not agree to know him, partly because of her lack of legs.
“I didn’t give up! She returned to Tuyen Quang’s hometown, I decided to stay at a relative’s house who lived there, then every day I went over to Bich’s house to play, like that for 3 months. Thereby, whenever I see something, I can help. gradually, with the support and influence of the families of both sides as well as seeing her sincerity, she also fell in love”, he told about his journey to “smash” her sister.
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6 months later, the couple officially became husband and wife. Because of loving the man with defects but bravery and emotional life, she vows to be his feet for the rest of her life.
After returning to the same house, they returned to Vinh Phuc to build a happy life. Although he can take care of himself, in many situations Mr. Thanh cannot move on his own but relies on support from others. That’s when Bich started to practice carrying Mr. Thanh.
“I’m 43 kg, he’s 70 kg. At first, I couldn’t carry him. But gradually, I knew how to carry and how, so I got used to it. Now it’s easier for me to carry him,” she smiled gently, confiding.
After 8 years of marriage, besides the love that is gradually being cultivated over time, it is the 2 sons (6 years old and 5 years old) who are the bond that connects the couple’s love and marriage more and more strongly. Currently, he stays at home to take care of the housework, while her sister works as a maid to support her life. Sometimes, they still have to rely on the economic support of the two families.
When the couple’s story became known on social networks, they received many wishes from everyone. That makes them both emotional and happy, a great encouragement for the small family.
“Thank you for spending your youth to accompany and take care of me. To me, you are a wonderful wife!”, the husband reminded and said that what he most values in his wife is the gentleness and tolerance. love hard work and always love her husband.